"what's your fav colour?"
"where is the number one place you wish to visit"?
"where would you be in 5 years time"?

You see, often enough these are the questions we posse to people or our potential interests. But have we asked ourselves enough? Have we gotten to know ourselves pretty well?

I would be in my utter silence for at least 5 seconds before I could come out with an answer to those questions. We think we should get to know people in order to connect with them but fair enough, the methodology is also applicable when we wish to connect with ourselves.

People loves company, I do, we do, and everybody will at some point needs at least a company. Until then, it is rather crucial to build resilience and feel okay about improving and enjoying the life on your own.  There are both, controllable and uncontrollable factors in life and if we exert extra efforts in understanding the controllable factors, we shall be able to create a joyful life. Knowing how our days are numbered, we shall all learn to love ourselves in order to love others better.

The fallacy of loving others first may result to you not knowing who you are and thus, losing the core of own-self. Love yourself and those belong to you will do the later genuinely.

Till then!