As you grow older, I think it makes sense that we start to get to know ourselves a little bit better than the previous years. Accumulated factors such as activities we do, people we encounter and how we deal with events in our life grow us up. We learn everyday, in fact gradually and graciously (my wish), and this also includes learning ourselves. How we communicate and interact with people, how we get things done, how we make decisions and all these realizations come only when we  start to be more aware of how we do things.

And then we'll notice more of our strengths and our weaknesses. Activities we're typically good at and there are also things no matter how we try hard, we would just still despise it.

I believe in natural tendency. It is only natural that we're good at certain things ( and this is our strength) and there are things we're not really good at ( and this is due to lack of experience, exposure or skills ) but that shall not be the stop-factor because eventually, the key idea is to learn and grasp as much as we can. But I'm positive that given certain circumstances, extra efforts are required to learn new knowledge that we're not used to. And it is totally fine guys. To learn and to run extra miles if it goes align with your needs, wants, and values in general.

So I guess some of us know what we want, but the (extra length) question would go, do we know why we want those things? those goodness? or those people?  We want to interact only with certain type of people. Why? We want this-and-that work. Why? We want to learn new things. Why and how can that benefit you?

Knowing what we want is absolutely fine so that we'll be driven and nurture the courageous in us, but knowing why we want such gives us additional values, teaching us values that we know we're built for.

Hopefully we'll want things and sensible enough to frame the thought of why we want things.

Happy Wednesday! ( From the little cubicle at work)