Interesting enough, adulting phases are the moments in life each and every one of us will go through.

From the girl with zero concern in the world, you will come into realisation that you just have tons of responsibilities to carry on your shoulders ( and trust me, plenty opportunities to adult, only when you want to).

Learning is the integral part of it. Sitting in a meeting, letting your mind wanders worldwide is totally find but just when you hit another stage of your life, you want to become that knowledge-machine, absorbing every detail possible. So that you'll be informed of new knowledge and you'll be aware of information useful for you and your work.

You may want to call it aging, but I prefer to let it known as smart enough to understand and filter your activities accordingly. These days, I prefer to connect with not just the world better, but also the nature! There is this sense of belonging when you connect with the lushy greens around you and how much you can learn from the activities that you get to do with a little bit of nature involves in the picture. Morning walk, cycling - and soon enough, I'd like to Kayak again though pretty sure (had promised myself that I'd never ever ever do that again after my three years back OBS) ah that was brutal. But that was only because I did not have the supposedly right mentality when I went for the training. I was not flexible with change and was not open enough with the idea of trying out new things.

And then you'll realize, one of the stages also involves you becoming a little bit more fearless. You take up new things because you know you just have nothing to lose. In life, you either win or you either learn. Both ways tango well in dictating the new you.  I believe in the idea of owning wildest dreams. The good part is, dreams cost you not even a penny, only your guts and drives to keep you going. If one day, you wake up and feel like doing something healthily crazy (move abroad, get a new job, enroll in new classes, ditch your absurd boyfriends and etc) - just do freaking do it! 

One day, If you wake up with pimples, Scream!! No thanks, really. One big one on your face is not going to increase your money in the account nor that it will decrease. Congratulations, it is not a world problem! So yes, if years ago I'd be worry that I do not have a boyfriend because of how I look,  these days I'd be worrier if I know I actually am meeting one but not knowing what I want in a person. So yes, high chance it really is not about how you look and come to think of it, you would not want someone so petty about it too. Chemistry, that feel-like home, respect, great communications are some of the important ones. Just in case I bump into one! 

I learn that you may want to treat people around you nicer too. Not because you're nice, but it feeds your soul. That little part of kindness has its own measures and that is one way to go with life. Do good, feel good and on repeat of the same things. Think good of others and matured enough to let go of unnecessary dramas - family, loves, friends. And so less is more, they say!

And that is the beautiful-est you of all. To know that you may not always have everything works the way you want it to be, but sometimes, no most of the times really, all you need is that little reliance to the biggest Power, God, and have faith He'll treat you right. Know that you are so so blessed and please loosen the rope you always hold on tightly.