infatuation and infidelity.

infatuation comes first, and the act comes later.
I once thought we're never capable to house too many people in our thoughts and hearts. Wrong, we could. Like family, we love each one of them, and with the same capability, we allow people in, and that also with both quality and quantity.

with that comes another question, we take chances in people and most of the times, the same chances are on ourselves. understanding own fears and needs, own strengths, solitude, and loneliness.

when you choose one person, that is because you understand that one person could potentially be the best for you and you choose that person - over your fear of ownself, of loneliness, and even if you fear you'd be out of love. Choose that one person means, you take chance on him, on yourself and allowing life to let that happen, naturally.