Saturday, July 15, 2017

"Wake up in the morning feeling like P. Diddy, grab my glasses, i'm out of the door, I'm gonna hit the city .."

Wow, I really wish I actually have the the time to wake up and feeling like P. Diddy but TikTokTikTok, our times are running(out), and trust me, at times I feel like time could run mercilessly leaving me behind, gasping for that air, needed for breathing!

As we adulting through  years, 'time is golden' is finally making more and more sense. One, (personally me) can never have enough time in 24 hours. I work odd hours and it feels like juggling work, family commitment, finding time to outgrow ourselves and personal development, and socializing can really be a tough challenge. You can have it all but the agility of multitasking carries its own toll.  The thought of the need to get it all done itself boils the veins up to your head and when doing it all, your attention to details can really go off sights. There was once I literally forgotten that I actually lived  on the 9th level instead of 22nd level( where my office is positioned). So guys, not funny!

Multitasking can namely be quite of a skill but it isn't all giving that all the things in your plate can get overloaded. and of course, leaving one of the important items maybe is not the option. You need to go to work- thats how your earn, you need to take care and pay attention to your parents( you just dont be ungrateful and leave them, dont you?, you need to enhance certain skills- corporate ladder and you know you just have to - read, volunteer, start cooking, musics class( never too late!), and you still need to insert sanity to your system by going out and having a little time for your personal reflection. And that excluding your non negotiable sleep, meals, exercise, toilet time. So is 24h enough for us??  I have failed my own question, there is really no apparent answer when all we have is the one and only 24h.

Here comes the order of managing your life and start prioritizing based on your necessity and importance. You may be struggling but remember to only focus on the present and what you can offer best. Giving certain circumstances, always pause and think what could be the best solutions that could be beneficial for most parties and the best reasonable way to start making  responsibility as part of the items you consider. Nobody likes doing things when feeling obliged to but responsibility is something that you just cant avoid and I'd like to think of it as the give and take process in life. You get some, you give some. and you just do it.

Try organizing your days by scheduling it pre daily so that you'll get a sense of what the day is going to be like. Crossing off one of the items in to-do-list gives the best feeling at the end of the day, knowing that you have achieved and done something for the day. Prioritizing can be hard knowing that as adults we do have 1001 things and all are important but time is always super limited, and I'm pretty lucky to have stumbled upon one of the blogger's blog on how he actually sets what is negotiable and what is non negotiable for him in a day. For example, 8 hours of sleep is something that is non-negotiable for him, so he'll manage his day accordingly and by commiting to the idea that no matter how busy days can be, he'll still get his enough sleep. He allocated hours for workout( vital for mental health and im starting to get the idea ), family time, social, read, and his personal way of improving himself.

 Upon realising that we're always run out of time, I'm also reminded of how short our times in this world can be. We might not know tomorrow, and it would be too wasteful to get depressed over what had happened in the past, the only thing left is to make peace with the present and give our best given the time we still have.

I wish you best! and One can always strive.

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